~'Because you think this is the argument room, but this is abuse...'
The first paragraph was directed at you, but since you seem to be devoid of any type of humor chose instead to be insulted. Also you missed the point, or perhaps you recognize the 'ignore it till it goes away' action really is a shitty non action, and want to deflect the issue.
The second paragraph contains the word 'you' but is not directed at you but at those who keep chiming in about their right to spew. My apolgies for any clarity issues.
Well okay, in this case no apology needed
Look, actually I know what you mean. I don't want to read "burn all friends in gas chambers" in the chat too, that's disgusting. But always keep in mind WHY you would write that. Till now we have two motivations:
- Trolling
- Propaganda
I guess we only disagree about the relations. But never mind which relation it is, due to the "unsteady" nature of chat, disappearing after a few seconds ingame and a few minutes in the log, ingame chat is a very bad medium for spreading racist thoughts. And if you don't get any feedback at all, you will soon have the feeling of speaking only to yourself, and stop.
Okay, perhaps you shouldn't allow it, because a few scenarios came to my mind where it would really reach ugly extends, e.g. two racist finding each other on the servers. But in most cases just ignore it, don't pay it more attention than it deserves. The random black or jew joke shouldn't be commented at all, same as names like "sandfriend" "towelhead" "bimbo" or whatever. I think the only occasion where you should react is when someone really wants to start to argue about stuff. Either just mute him, or take screenshots and report him, but do NOT answer him, in any way, nor do something that harms yourself like teamkilling him. He will still be able to write to everyone who's dead, and next round he's back, with new motivation as he sees some reaction.
People do things only because they WANT something, it's one of the most basic rules of life. Just don't give those people what they want, it's the best you can do. Everything else would be a victory for them.
Edit: also keep in mind that an offended reaction towards something which wasn't really meant racistically could provoke that kind of: "Uh? What? You don't like it when I say friend? friend friend friend friend friend friend!"-reaction, making a drama where no drama was.