It's a game, and without war, Strategus would be so freaking boring ...
This said, we had to pick enemies, to make it more interesting, to have our members not playing other "not as good but less bugged than cRPG" games and to keep it fun. You happened to be the ones with the most reasons why to attack ("most" could be 1 as much as I care...).
So be a man, accept the situation and fight like a man. Stop trying to be the "victim" to have some random clans showing up having your back ... Good if some do as we don't really see you as a threat, just that annoying mosquito biting you and flying away before you can crush it ...
Take example on these kids .. they fight cause that's what's expected, not because they really hate each other.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zqC6B9K8-40&list=LLaw9wvXiVx4SgM3X5ermMWg&feature=mh_lolzIt's a sport, and fights happen all the time. Well cRPG it's a game and wars happen all the time. The way you deal with it makes you look good, or bad, and right now with all the crying and the drama, damn you look like queers...