No need to pretend, the threads are all here.
Which ones ? There's this and the one with Harunhaya suggesting that flags are bad and we should spend more time looking at each other instead of playing, which was arguably even worse than this. There's no consensus when it comes to people commenting either as you are pretty much the only person commenting in favor.
If you want people to play the way you want them to play, you have to convince them, not force them into it. Besides it's not like a penalty for dying would change behaviors. If players are discouraged to have fun, they'll either ignore the penalty and have fun anyway, or go play something else, preferably something fun.
The only things this change would encourage are camping, delaying, fleeing, hiding and ranged, things that virtually nobody likes.