Seriously people do you really think you're entitled to this mod?
I bought warband, so yes, I do. People can be banned from the servers and databases, but with a fairly simple change to a couple files, one could host their own database and server. Mods are, by their very nature, open source. Other people assist chadz in the development and balancing of this mod, population aside. Anyone with modding/coding skill and html knowledge could take the existing c-RPG code and duplicate it, making a new database to draw information from, and to store the code. This hypothetical person could then take the game in the direction of popular opinion, balancing and making changes that the community WANTS. They could also post a real changelog, and accept feedback from the community in a mature way.
Even if a mod is not announced as being open source, few modders have any way to stop others from "borrowing" their code to create something different.
Should chadz be commended for the work he has done in bringing this mod to the public? Absolutely.
Should anyone assume that the community will remain healthy, let alone "his community", if he constantly goes against popular opinion with dictator-like enthusiasm? I wouldn't.