Owens, you said you faced one of the best footwork players out there. What does footwork do?
-It increases damage as it adds to your speed bonus when you strike
-It decreases damage taken by going in the direction of the swing or placing yourself in a position where full damage cannot
be done (ie beginning or end of the swing)
That already changes a lot about damage.
Now add to that the location damage (head,foot,body). You get other variables, with head hit having a +20 percent bonus damage.
Now add to that the random damage variable which you cant do anything about.
By now, you should see that your results are pretty normal.
I started on crpg without any multiplayer training. I did not know how to block, feint, and use footwork. I took the time to learn it.
Warband is not an easy game, and crpg mod is probably even harder. But the only difference between new players and veterans are
looms and mostly experience. There is no hard-coded damage difference.