Deep Melancholy thread

[Christo]

I know this sounds pathetic, but anyone can have these moments.
 I feel like an emotional wreck, failing at everything, never able to reach happiness or anything that would change my life for the better..

And not because you aren't trying, it's the worst when you are even trying to make everything to be better, and just nothing, nothing works out as how it should be, like with anyone else around you.

FML, seriously.

[[ptx]]

You have higher renown than me

Also, try changing your environment. Try living somewhere else, for example.

[Vibe]

there's always alcohol

[Mala]

or chocolate

[Christo]

there's always alcohol

Been there, done that.

Alcohol helps less and less during the years. I'm not having the same "world is lighter and everything is great" feeling, unless I drink ridiculously huge amounts, like.. outdrinking my friends with about 3-4x more booze, and still up without a problem.

That ain't no good on the long run.

Also, try changing your environment. Try living somewhere else, for example.

Wish I could just do that. Sadly, I can't. Would be intersting though.

[Grumpy_Nic]

Try gaming less. That you post this in a online community forum should make you aware that you spend too much time with this, and sitting in front of the computer all the time is killing morale, I've had the same and drastically reduced the time I'm looking into a monitor, never thought I could be happy ini my life again.
But now I'm happy again and life is good. And I'm awesome irl... fucking awesome to be honest, there is nothing that can stop me 
I suck at computer games pretty much but apart from that, I'm best at everything.

Try scuba diving, underwater is the place to be. So silent and so nice, always cheers me up when I'm down below

[Vibe]

Been there, done that.

Then get a woman. Shit, man the fuck up, stop feeling sorry for yourself and go do something about it. Try harder.

[Son Of Odin]

I listen to Down when I feel down. Or something like Sentenced, Seether etc.. I'm not really sure if it helps or just drags me further down. Kinda depends on the day I guess. If I feel absolute crap, music atleast numbs it all down to a tolerable level so it helps in any case. Christo try to keep your head up buddy, it's only life

Here have a try:

[Leshma]

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PS. Melancholy is my natural state.

Fight it with humour

[Christo]

Then get a woman. Shit, man the fuck up, stop feeling sorry for yourself and go do something about it. Try harder.

Has a part in why I created the thread.

It's really disheartening when you're trying your best, and you are a gentleman by nature, building up the bricks that shall lead to a stable relationship, and during a pub party you find her in some unknown douchebag's mouth, while you're being ignored.

I've yet to investigate if this is for 100% but I couldn't really care now. Feeling Betrayed sucks really.

It sucks, because I have memories of songs and activities we did, stuff like that. Usually I'm not "emotional" at all, but this hit like the iceberg hit the Titanic. Not the first time I experience such a thing, usually I don't really care. Now you could say that the string just snapped inside there, and I'm somewhat broken.

Others around me get everything so easily, let it be relationships or other stuff.
I am the only one with the burden of bad luck it seems, if there is reincarnation, I must've been a very bad mofo in my last life to get all this shit, haha.

PS. Melancholy is my natural state.

Fight it with humour

Yeah, Humour helps I find, I'm like addicted to comedy and stuff at the moment, also a good sprint helps to cool off for some time, although not for very long.

PS: Actually, I got over the whole thing in like.. 2 hours of analyzing the situation, and deep thinking.
 It's just irritating when I look around, and everybody has it so easy.

[Grumpy_Nic]

Nothing is easy. There is a simple formula for life which I use and that works in many situations:

Change or accept

[Berserkadin]

It gets better, eventually you will get over it and grow as a person. Enjoy some good, emotional music like Coldplay or Sigur Rós.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DqHVCFFpCfc

Cant seem to emb the video but its totally awesome, cracks me open like dynamite.

[Son Of Odin]

Has a part in why I created the thread.

It's really disheartening when you're trying your best, and you are a gentleman by nature, building up the bricks that shall lead to a stable relationship, and during a pub party you find her in some unknown douchebag's mouth, while you're being ignored.

I've yet to investigate if this is for 100% but I couldn't really care now. Feeling Betrayed sucks really.

It sucks, because I have memories of songs and activities we did, stuff like that. Usually I'm not "emotional" at all, but this hit like the iceberg hit the Titanic. Not the first time I experience such a thing, usually I don't really care. Now you could say that the string just snapped inside there, and I'm somewhat broken.

Others around me get everything so easily, let it be relationships or other stuff.
I am the only one with the burden of bad luck it seems, if there is reincarnation, I must've been a very bad mofo in my last life to get all this shit, haha.

Yeah, Humour helps I find, I'm like addicted to comedy and stuff at the moment, also a good sprint helps to cool off for some time, although not for very long.

PS: Actually, I got over the whole thing in like.. 2 hours of analyzing the situation, and deep thinking.
 It's just irritating when I look around, and everybody has it so easy.

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Remember its down the road, not across the street kids

[Tibe]

I cant even tell if you trolling or serius....

If you trolling than.......nice job good sir, you got me.

If you not, than.......try doing something unusual to your average day and remember that failing at everything is impossible, even if you Mr. Bean. I rarely feel like a emotional wreck althou in real life im a freaking disaster with nothing proper to show. But I quess, in my case....ive kinda killed most of my feelings and emotions overtime, which kinda made me almost immune to depression. Its acctually true about me.

PS: DID SOMEONE HERE MENTION QUIT GAMING??? Do not fcking do that. Its proven if anything gaming helps you relax or blow off some steam. Beating people up ingame will help you avoid doing it in real life. Its proven, dont argue(thou there are always some exeptions to everything in life).

[Corwin]

Man up, as someone said, this is probably not the last time someone betrays you, people do that to each other all the time, often when least expected.

In future, try being more a of man, less gentleman. Women seldom cheat on men, and very often on their cuddle bitches.

And remember the greatest wisdom of them all: THIS TOO SHALL PASS.