i fucking hate windows live, i fail to register to it and i as always forgot userame and shit. Is it designed to prevent people from registring?
Looks like Dark souls doesn't use windows live any more, I start a game without registration, only thanks to that I can play it. Though the game still crashes when I try to launch it from steam.
Well you might aswell quit if you are using guides first time around, the fun part about the game is learning, adapting, finding secrets and finally figuring out that strategy to beat that one area. Looking up guides the moment things get a little rough removes all of that. Even with guides though the combat is great, boss fights are usually pretty fun and exploring is awesome.
I do realize that without any help it would be much harder, but I always try to read everything about builds, combat tips, hidden places and so on before I even start a game

That's how I always play, mostly because I never play for the second time games like this, rarely even finisth first playthrough.
Patience is hard. And yes with patience the hollow soldiers are easy, how far did you get?
Patience is boring

And cheating is boring, I killed first Black Knight in first attempt using bug with doors, as lvl 10 or sth like that. Felt pretty silly after that, but everyone says that's how you're supposed to play Dark souls... Well then

Combat against normal folks is pretty funny, really nice moves with different weapons and so on, the problem is most of the time they're purely optional, simple tactics and patience kill more effective than "anything" else in this game

how far did you get?
I've made undead city, now I'm in blighttown.