Hm,
to be honest, the good cav still rapes me head on charging, i guess i am doing it wrong all the damn time. I find the current system much better than the old retarded one where you could just poke all around you, oneshotting people with dislocated shoulders.
I did played cav back then for one or two gens, i do have a cav char now, i am not an expert, but from the feel i have from it, its okay now.
And to them guys telling cav and archery got nerfed to hell, damn, 2hers were nerfed before that and are being nerfed with pretty much every patch now (anim change, stat change, recent mw stat changes).
And actually, while i was 2h infantry, i had easier time killing horses in old patch than i have now...when i jumpstab with danish i got often lanced before i could land a hit, but when i do ride with lance on a onehander guy, he jumpstab me before i reach him...it is all about adapting id say, no offense.