I kinda stopped a little as I got in the same problem of oblivion getting too much quests.
Will definitely play it again someday but passion for mmorpgs is rising again after taking a huge break since nothing good came out yet (Playing cosmic break a little for now cause I love mech games)
On my character have 100 smithing which made the game easier (Still need deadric weapons tough) and with dragon armour apart of mages I find little problems fighting since I can sneak and 1 hit them with daggers
Anyways argonians ftw! (Bless their regeneration skill)