That really hurt.. It is true, I threatened him, Jambi. Never denied that. It is true, I sure would have let anyones head roll for a similar thing happening in real life.. I sure would do that. Getting that item, was kind of work to me and noone in this world has any right to gain the fruits for my "work"... not in a game. not anywhere else.
And usually I am a nice person. I helped, whenever I could. Giving tipps, answering questions.. even spend a lot of hours training with guys I didn't know, to help them learn to block or play or whatever... Ya, I did and I always did. I never says "no" to anyone, needing help.
But that's, what You get, when You are nice to people.. You gotta bend over and kiss someones ass to get something, what belongs to You..
If someone has a clue about the real life laws, he'd know, that this kind of contract becomes invalid.. I also know, it doesn't count here.. but there still could be a sense of justice.. at least a little hint of it? "why" -.-
I am sorry, if I disappointed anyone, that I like, there..
But I would never apologize to someone like that guy.. I am way to proud for that.
I guess the words i choose are harsh. But im happy your replied to them, and opened conversation.
CRPG is competitive, ingame and on the forum. Alot of us are out for themselves.
Its not real life power, its pixel power. I guess the majority of people, still feel and think.. that gaining any items on your computer is important.
Find a balance man, there is nothing to gain over the interwebs.
Ide say refrain from being an Admin, as you do have tensions to use your status. I guess its part of your pride.
While i can see your point. That someone could have pointed out your mistake. But instead bought it, is dissapointing.. especially if you always meant well yourself.
He came to the market to find a good deal, saw your deal.. and bought it.
I bet there nobody here, that goes too the market, too see if anyone made mistakes.. so he can point them out in order for the seller to correct them.
But suck it up, apologize too the man. Score +1 for the admin team, I respect people that take responsiblility for there own mistakes. And the Admin team can sure use more apologizing. Instead of making excuses like "every human makes mistakes" sort of bullshit.....
From what ive read so far, i do think you need to take a little break. And prolly consider a diffrent approach to CRPG.
Maybe you are too kind of heart, helping out too many random people, sacrificing yourself too much.... and expecting the same in return.
Join a clan, narrow it down. get to know a couple of players personally, play with them and help them... have fun, share some emotion.
Nobody is expecting you too help them.
Help yourself.
There's too many dumbfucks here, too appreciate a good samaritan
