I think its easier than previous titles overall. there is just some hard enemies for sure, like those hentai mode zombies on the wall early on, pretty sure your best off just running past them.
but some things I keep thinking were way more brutal in previous games, like poison. poison was fucken brutal in dark souls 1, I nearly quit souls series forever in blightown. now it does next to nothing. Curse also was even more brutal than death in ds1, too fucking brutal tbh. even in ds2 it hollowed you. now it just kills you.
Game is still hard, newcomers defo will still struggle their pants off. but it seems about right to me, I'm progressing easy enough but still get my ass kicked. For example the dual wielding enemies in catacombs are just never not terrifying, I cant just roll dodge them like most things; their attack animations are overpowered to be honest.