Seriously? Did that really hurt your feelings, or is it just some excuse to back up your nomination? 
man i voted   at his favour last time, so hardly  i was an enemy of lilith,  but  him tryng to  TRAP me,  and talk against me on irc ,while i have a question with another admin, is really  unbelivable for an admin.  otherwise i not was here to talk about, everybody know how much i not care about reporting ppl.       i take  every insult from everyone  every  tk, and never report becouse i  am not child.          but  he crossed  a point where i am forced to answer. 
i sended to him a pm for obtain his Admin answer, of what happened, and  what i got back was an admin that where talking  against me in irc, even if he not was involved at all in the things between me and Okin.       hardly   a fair attitude for an admin,  my bad for considering  him  someone to trust in a delicate question like that.
This is weird. He got banned by Okin, but he's deciding to blame me for it. How exactly am I abusing admin? Sending him a pm is not a use of admin power, how can that be an abuse of admin powers?
Oh, let me quote this "trap":
no one is stupid Lilith on same exact moment i was in IRC  with you  macking me and talking against me,(while of course i not was in irc, but i got log from somoeone else thats why i Joined for find you continue talk against me and if you remember i even say :  something regards talking on back of person:
 if the answer was Yes i am sure you where using that LOUDLY in irc for aggravate my position with Okin.    
your question is a trap, becouse in that contest,     is not a friendly request,  or a curiosity request, is made for continue your purpose to talking against me  
you are so childish and prevedible  that is unbelivable how  you can still an admin.      also i miss what the hell i did  against you   for get your rage, i even was helping you by telling you to do not talk too much about  your 3d , becouse you where arguing too much with the community.