Surely everything is perfectly fine and strictly nothing needs to be changed. Even though I disagree with the op, your opinion is quite extreme.
Well personally I think everything is fine now, and was fine a year ago before a lot of the nerfs they implemented. Even after all the nerfs and buffs, the game is still very well balanced, IMO.
Almost every situation in game has a counter to it. Every class has strengths and weaknesses. There is literally nothing in the game that I have encountered that left me saying "that's really bullshit, there's nothing you can do to counter that".
Most of the people who ask for nerfs are too stubborn or ignorant to overcome the problem by themselves, even though most of the time, that solution is able to be figured out and implemented by them in game.
Having discussions about balance, and equipment stats is perfectly fine, and I would encourage it. Crying about something, when you have the power to change your actions and affect the outcome differently, and refusing to do so, is what you mostly see on the nerf/whine threads.
And Zilsch, my default stance is that you don't need a nerf or a buff to the game to "balance" it out. The game is pretty well balanced, and nothing is overpowered (in my mind). I never "bitched about" turn nerf, or about losing polestun (I think you mean pole stagger). I did bitch about my shit poster title because I'm nowhere near as bad as a lot of people on these forums, most of my posts are given some thought and reason to it (unless it's obvious that I"m fucking around, some people still like to have fun sometimes). I have said that the turn nerf affected a lot of weapons which were not the problem they were trying to fix.
And yes, I feel that I can bitch about nerfs, because I don't think nerfs are necessary at this point in the game's development, and nerfs always have unintended consequences, which usually require or lead to more nerfs.