I agree with the FUCK YOU - part.
Everywhere in the 1st world, the social nets are breaking down. We tend to do alot of things to provide every last single bit of technology to keep humans alive that would die otherwise.
It may not be social or accepted to talk about those kind of things in our civilization but sometimes I am thinking:"Seriously? Keep that poor being alive is the way you chose to go?"
I don't have any solutions or any ideas. I am just thinking that death needs to be less frightened to us. The viewpoint should shift back to the more natural understanding of life and its counterpart. That's actually how it used to be. And I am blaming religion for the fucked up view on death we have today.
The border between being alive and just being a "working organism" has completely vanished in some cases. If someone is just down in his/her bed, haven't been awake for 3 months, that has nothing to do with being alive, that's just an "working" pile of cells...
Anyway, following some of the arguments of Oberyn would mean that HIV, cancer or H5N1 are desperate attempts of Nature getting back the upper hand over humanity, I guess.