It's fine how it is.
Get yourself 300k by using peasant gear, buy a +1 and start trading +1s with gold on top. It will take you forever~!~ but at some point you'll gain enough gold to buy a +3.
Buy low sell high, swap shit for shit and get what ever gold is on offer.
Looms help, but they aren't the be all and end all.
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I think the biggest difference in +3 vs non-loomed are
Throwing
Horses
Shields
In that order. The boost for 2h and pole arms is nice but it's just kind of icing on the cake. But for the other 3 you see a real differnce. My +3 Brown lion Heater shield lasts a lot longer than a non-loomed one and my Cataphract is a completely different beast. And it's pretty easy to feel the difference with loomed +3 Heavy Throwing Axes vs non-loomed.
But looms aren't make or break. I've killed plenty of people that are loomed head to toe with unloomed weapons.
The real thing that blocks entry for many is how hard the game is and the fact that we are all douch lords.
Here are some pretty graphs for anyone interested. They are based on active characters only and start at the introduction of the transfer between characters (before we had them split between main and alt). Unfortunately we didn't start tracking before the marketplace tax was added, would have been interesting to compare.
People are hoarding heirloom points!
The taxes and sinks at work.
How rich are rich people? At first it seemed they were not really affected by the tax (not seen in the graph), i think they were trying to sit it out by not trading. Total is taken from the 100 richest.
Poor people are really dirt-poor. The average rich person has way more gold than the 1000 (!) poorest characters together.
EDIT: now that i think about that it might be a good idea to start tracking total gold per account too, not just characters.
I never thought I would be so proud to be in the 1%
MUHAHAHAHAHAHAHA!
BATMAN!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!