Im VERY sry to be the voice of reason:
1. If you quit because of losing multi (with no external factors. Its different to think "Well, Im kinda hungry, gonna make some dinner when I lose this multi") then, IMHO: Fuck off, you arent playing for fun.
2. If you REQUIRE multi to use your fav gear, and actually watch to see what your loosing by using high tier gear even when not on a multi, then, IMHO: Fuck off, you are trying to use too much gear.
In native, much like in Counterstrike and many other games predating Warband expansion to Mount n Blade, you are given a set amount of gold, to customize your starting gear. Each life you can try to improve this gear by killing, winning round etc, so next round you can upgrade. Guess which servers seldom had GOOD players? The ones giving you 5k or something stupid at start: Why? because everyone maxing gear is retarded, doesnt make for positive play, teamwork, effort/reward correlation or fun. This system obviously doesnt work for crpg, since everyone has bought their gear. But the IDEA of rewarding positive play by allowing better gear is SOUND.
Right now I cannot think of a better way to ensure all of YOU dont just slap on plate and grab a greatsword/huge poleaxe round after round. We saw from early crpg that THAT is exactly what 90% of you DO. Reguardless of what your character started out as, as soon as possible you made it into a armoured main battle tank. If you dont like upkeep based system controlling you so you DONT act like a douche endlessly, its simple: Dont be a douche. Check old Taleworlds forum and you will see my old Signature: even at the height of platespam, I wore blue tunic, blue hood, wrapping boots, carried a longbow and a maul, or wore blue tunic and hood, and spammed you all down with a longsword/katana. I fucking LOVED those days. I dont care what armour ppl wear, I will defeat it, because it wont make you a better player, just a slower runner. Then you all cried and cried and AGI got nerfed. Seeing what you all intended, chadz, in his wisdom, introduced the slot system and the upkeep system to stop you all from being the my old friends you all want to be, all in Plate, all the time, just because "I played for AAAAAAGES now can I have a reward reguardless of my actual progress or skill level."
For those of you who REALLY dont play for fun anymore: Single player native, wear what you want and spam down on brainless bots.
If any of you DISSAGREE with what I have written, Prove me WRONG by NOT crying in this thread. Im off to lunch, have a good rage. Egoists.