Oh that was you guys? Thought it was Grey order troops. My mistake
Since the beginning of this war, in our own battles, fighting under our own power, we've killed about 10k of your alliance's troops. That includes some 3000 of your castle defenders, but sets aside the many thousands more we've killed fighting against you in the battles of friends and allies, and of course the battles where you took the castle in the first place. We and the Greys have been together every step of the way -- they've committed more troops, it's true, and we're extremely grateful to them for that, but keep in mind that all the armies we've used were raised after the war began.
Don't be a sore loser, I doubt I need to remind you how heavily the deck was stacked against us when you decided to start this whole thing by attacking our villages.