Maybe us duelists want our skills to count in battle too?
Yes, I am aware of the ping problem, and it's a legitimate one, but I'm sitting on ~65-70 ping and I can handle the current speed with ease.
We already got stat/number dependent classes (ranged and cav), can't we keep melee more about duel skill? There are tons of options if you want to teamplay; pikeman, cav, twatcher, x-bow, crushthrough who can all kill "jedi" players without getting touched themselves.
These are all classes that tremendously reduce duel skill impact, but when regular melee becomes just a teamplay element as well... Well, where are the options? Warband has the most awesome melee combat system ever developed imho, let us develop and use it!
Let close combat regular melee be for the *duelists* (there are awesome melee players who almost don't duel at all), for those who want to develop and get really good at it.