Admittedly, I do almost everything in regards to my significant other that would make me a 'nice guy' according to that article. However, she feels the same way. It's an emotional co-dependence that we're both comfortable with. I am not, however, a nice person in general. The fact is, with most relationships, the emotional attachment is minute in the beginning, and I think that's the cultural expectation. So if you don't find someone who needs that emotional depth, you'd do well to act accordingly.