there is no best gear,and no best builds. When will you people learn that?
Everything depends on your play style. I like speed so i would suck even harder with 21/15 build,but 15/21 or 15/24 it would be fine for me.
Others would fail with my build because they like one hit and would use 27/15 (it is posible to make this build) or 30/3.
Every weapon in game is balanced,and fair to other weapons.
Here is example i can kill with mallet dude who is using great maul because mallet is having more speed and i will hit him earlier,lance can kill other lancer whois using heavy lance because of speed and skill of player no matter if he have 10 more reach then me. Find item you like,and practise with it.