Ujin, how do you want to counter cavalry with 1h spear ? It's IMPOSSIBLE with 150 reach ones against good cavalry (it allows you to block couches, nothing else) like Torben, Tommyyy and other good cav players (who just use superior reach and extremely high speed/maneuver to kill each and every player with weapon shorter than awlpike, and couch people dead who have weapon shorter than +-150 reach for 1h spear and +-170 for 2h spear).
We both know you want to keep your shiny toys so you'll defend them no matter the facts.
As a cav, you can ignore 1/3 of the playerbase (infantry) and pick your battles with virtually no downsides (except the cost, but i guess you can manage the upkeep as your beloved heavy lance is cheaper than warspear that is way less powerful), you can backstab unaware people and gang them when it suit you fancy. This thread ask for just a minor change (not even a nerf, change in behavior) that will increase the skill required to play the class. Can't you cope with more skill requirements ?