You should have read the second part than...
Also yes I'm not asking for something so close to reality. I'm asking to get a bit closer to medieval warfare, respecting the game balance.
Parrying a high speed lance thrust just by the same animation all the time is getting annoying.
If it was for realism, no one would use lances onehanded on horseback in the first place.
Also,
Pike is shit slow. It cannot be used for dueling since it only thrust attacks on top of that.
*coughcoughWalt_F4coughcough*
Depends on what pike you are talking about. The 3m pike is extremely hard to duel with, because you have to be very far to hit (with all the lolstabbing you want). The long spear however can be used, successfully from time to time, but becomes serious in duel only when masterworked, because turnstabbing actually works even at facehug range on this one.