have any of you played the GOT mod for warband?
Which one ? There are ACOK and AWOIAF. The first one is the one I play, it's quite polished, but the units tend to be very tanky (often having 9-10 IF), yet quite weak (2-3 PS for most units). The second one is painfully hard, not because of the difficulty of the fights themselves, but because a fucking peasant can get you injured permanently if you don't heal the wound caused by his OP pitchfork. ACOK however also has some random events which can either buff the shit out of your character (talking about gold, attribute points, renown, honor, and so on), or destroy its stats permanently, so I'd advice looking to the wikia about the events themselves so you don't have to deal with the same bullshit I had to deal with during my first playthrough. Overall, ACOK stands way more polished and fluid than its counterpart, but both mods are to receive big updates (5.0 for acok, 2.0 for awoiaf), so I'd advice playing both, see which one you prefer, then check them again once the patch has dropped. Hope this helps.