@Heskey,
No one is saying it's alright they promised more than they could deliver, it's very typical of politicians before an election or referendum which is why trust in politicians is at an all time lowest.
Honestly you strike me as speaking from a position where you dont really care what this actually means for the UK, you'll advocate anything that even remotely resembles voting 'i love my country! Yay!' out of principle even if it brings nothing else to the table
I care a lot about the UK. The day before the referendum I wrote in this very thread that I think I am more in favour of 'stay' in the hope the UK could help Denmark and other EU sceptic countries reform the institution into something better. But honestly I am ambivalent, like I am about my own country's membership, which I why I embrace the 'leave' aswell. The question is how reformable the EU really is. I don't buy that the EU is somehow necessarily better in economics and other aspects outright, there has been very conflicting reports on this and everything looks like the UK will get a 'special agreement' with the EU, anyway.
As for the rest you write you just continue not wanting to acknowledge any of the arguments, often put forward intelligently by intelligent people (Douglas Murray and others), of the other side. The world is not black and white, in particularly not politics or anything as complicated as EU membership, even if the campaign tried to make it appear so.