Maybe you should be more lenient with the low player base, I didn't witness any of this, but as a clanmate and as a lad you often played with, that's the only advice I can give. As much as I hate getting tked at the start or rage polled, people who do minor offenses should be forgotten, unless they're actively leeching/standing in a corner far of the battle, and therefore having an impact on the gameplay. You should not take feedback as an insult, but as a way to improve. People I know tend to say I'm too strict, and I'd probably have done the same things as you, but I'd take the feedback in a positive way and be more lenient in the future if I was you. As I said, being too strict in a mod that is halfway dead isn't really a good idea, while being tolerant has its limits, banning people really should be considered as a last resort to enforce the rules.