I know it is highly inappropriate and considered to be very gay in this community to show any signs of compassion... but take care, Sofa.
You have been an insufferable dick on the servers, and I liked you. In a way.
Take care and give life time to connect the dots.
Many people rush into outdated relationship models, have kids way too early, get caught up in "reality", hit the wall, break.
Some learn from it and move on, some break forever, some repeat the same stuff over and over again... I wish you the first.
There are many ways to love, many types of women, and many ways to give the kids still a sound and loving "tribe" to grow up in while the biological parents have chosen to walk different paths.
I wish you luck, and see you in Bannerlord... or c-rpg, in a year or so... we will be stuck in this pre-hell for another eon or so, I presume...