I feel like am playing a totally different game, I'm a bit confused because most of what you guys said here is completely the opposite of what I've experienced playing as a lancer.
1) Heavy lance is great and does a nice damage, but most importantly, makes you able to 1 vs 1 against most infantry players. If you need 5 hits to kill an archer with it, you're clearly doing something wrong.
2) I had absolutely no problem hitting another cav player I chased down, as long as I didn't fuck up my thrust, same as when stabbing someone at close distance on foot. If you can get close enough behind another cav, hitting him with a lance isn't hard at all.
3) If old lance angle were back, not only it would be OP against infantry, but also completely ruin the balance in cav 1vs1 fights between lancers and 1h/2h.
Couching might be a bit too rewarding for the risk it takes, but I almost never used it as a lancer, because using normal hits was actually easier to aim. As an infantry player, I don't find it too strong as long as I'm aware of the incoming cav. And if I'm not, I'm fucked up anyway.
1. I liked the heavy lance more than the normal one in the beginning, cuz I was using a balanced build. Now I use a agi build and so the lance is even more effective for that. With the heavy lance I really need allways more than one hit -_- Atleast when I do a normal hit. AND dafuq, cav is maybe made for doing some 1 vs 1s, but for being successfull you gotta be a sneaky asshole doing kills from behind only!
2. Dang, I played cav now in WFAS, Native, Mercenaries, some other mods of warband and in cRPG, but still I fucking suck in lance duels. Dang dude I trained that shit way too long for sucking that much xD So I don't really fight other cavs when I know they are good in that kind of shit :3 Fucking use the sneaky shit and u'll be scoreleader, didn't do worse than 2,7 kd with cav the last months, but I was like really only doing that sneaky shit lol
Actually at all I think cav is the only cav which makes you really think about what u have to do now! I'm 90 % yolocharging with other classes, but as cav I go full tactic and strategy. Ordinary u gotta do some extemporization, but when u'r plan works perfectly u feel like the best
3. I think the recent angle is pretty fine. It is for infs and cav a risk to attack each other. Mostly it is harder for the cav to do the hit, but when the inf does a mistake good cavs can imo hit him.