Ah, Tristan, that would be the difference between war and diplomacy. Which, obviously you've been confused on. Diplomacy is where you arrange such things as fief transfers or goods exchanges to settle disputes. Perhaps your confusion between diplomacy and war explains why you so easily went back on your word some months ago. Rest assured though, no such confusion on our part. We are most definitely at war with you.
Really? Because I've been pretty comfortable in Slezkh Castle for the last couple weeks, even managed to respec it and get rid of all that shit gear you guys made and put some actual good stuff in there.