It's a game, cool you're going to do it for money (which lets face it, doesn't matter) but don't stick so harshly to the times set. Duel at some point, one of you will win *cough* Vara, and then the lose can pay up. Hell, if my gf wanted fun times, if my friend rang me to go hang out or any multitude of things happened, I'd drop a duel, in a video game, against people I don't know and reschedule it.
But I mean hey, you people are the sort to stop being friends with someone who you were going to go bowling with cos shit came up, that's cool.
Have the duel, someone pay up, end of.
Why this needed 20 pages of analysis fuck knows.
Also lol at certain sacks of shit being MASSIVE hypocrites.