Hi,
the other day i left c-rpg webpage on when i left to go to the 7-11 and my girlfriend deleted my character because apparently i spend too much time playing the game.
Restoring your game is the least of your concerns right now.
Things like this are not done on a whim, and this is a semi-significant event at the least in your relationship.
If your girlfriend deleted your character then you have a problem, one of two.
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The first possible problem is that she cares little for video games and does not think you should be spending any appreciable amount of time playing them, in which case dump her for not supporting your hobby or have a very serious talk (talk like the adults you are, no argueing, just try and see each other's points and views in a calm fashion).
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The second possible problem (of which I am highly suspicious this is the one) is that you have been ignoring her or spending an unhealthy amount of time on this. How much time do you spend playing this per week, and how much time do you spend with her? How often do you "blow off" time with her when she asks for you to play this game instead?
This can be difficult for many men to fully appreciate, but while the top emotional concern for most men has been found that they value being respected, for women it has been found that this is a value of being loved. Being ignored for a video game can be understandable at times, but if this happens consistently then she will develop a problem very quickly (and rather understandable). She needs visible signs of your affection ("Oh, she knows that I love her" does not cut it, sorry), and you also need to make sure that you are not ignoring important real life duties as well (such as not taking out the kitchen garbage because you want to play another hour of siege, and forgetting to feed the dog as well or making a grocery run).
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One of the most important parts of a relationship is
Communication. You need to be able, and completely willing, to communicate with each other on a regular basis. You need to be able to address issues as the arise, not save them till later or keep them bundled up isnide of you until one of you rips the other person's head off.
Her deleting your character is an obvious sign of a communication problem. You need to talk to her, resolve why this happened in a respectful manner (don't raise your voice no matter what she does, keep yourself calm and to try to understand your point of view, and remember for the love of god that being right is not important, solving issues is what is important. Which is more important, being right 100% of the time or being with your girl? Sometimes she bites the bullet for you, so return the favor).
So in conclusion:Stop posting on this forum and playing this game until you completely resolve this issue with your GF, who is either a nutcase, or pissed off at you, either way fix it. She is vastly more important then this game, and either way she is going to be even more ticked that you are spending time trying to "get back your character" then actually talking to her.
You also need to have a talk with her about "not crossing a line" and personal boundaries.
