Oh, come on, I arealy explained that several times, same as Dave, and iirc we have rather similar opinion on it.
It is war. Fucking war where both sides have and use heavy artillery. Given that, casualties among civilians are inevitable. And it shouldn't surprise you. If you want to know when will it stop - you should discuss political situation - possible compromises(although I don't see any at the moment), what is real goal of Russia in this war, what could Ukraine possibly agree for, economical situation in LDNR, Ukraine and Russia - those are factors that decide how long will this war go on. But while it is going on - people will keep dying and suffering.
Or you can watch some more emotional videos from Shariy, get holy rage at those nazіs, come to Donetsk and shoot with artillery from within city, raging even more when response will kill some civilians who lived just next to your position and blaming ukrainians, EU and americans for that, but not yourself and not those who gave you cannon and orders.