And for Grandmom:
We did not ask our members before we took this step, actually I learned about this plan roughly one hour before the last attack on Narra myself, it was all planned by Rogue and Segd. You may call this undemocratic (which I can understand) but you do not know how few people there were/are in HRE who still give a fuck about Strat. I was Lord of Narra. I had like 20 Coalition members sitting in there who were more or less inactive, the most they could be arsed to do was transferring troops all 2 or 3 days in the best case. Finding someone to carry stuff from there to another destination was already hard enough before UIF came arouond and took our villages. After the loss of our villages it was even harder because the guy had to be on and check the map more often instead of just giving a movement order and then not caring for another day or two.
I know the feeling, and the mood within a clan that has 95% of the members not caring. Why? Cant you remember the feeling of strategus in the beginning when you started to understand things - the fun, the excitement of your first battle, your first war - the first time in a strategus battle. The first time you commanded a battle, first rollcall. The cheer in the ts when your clan won its first flagcap or took its first castle. This is what drives the people in a clan, this is what gives them energy and willingness. The perfect way to kill that energy is to just not make the guys active parts of the clan or grow to the clan to big and just hand out orders like its a single player game.
When the situation is like u describe it, its way past time to change leadership to someone with more energy that can boost the clan - to create a common goal that the team will fight for.
And yes, the decision to do what your clan did was not very democratic, but thats not my business in which way Coa rules its "bots".
If any scandivian people would like to continue participating in a clan with energy, where the members matter and where they are not only allowed to but will in some way be forced to act by voting on different things that is important to the clan - feel free to contact us.
And if you are not scandinavian - feel free to join us anyway
Btw - did I tell you we are going to war today? 16000 men marching as we speak