I am sorry, since I can't keep eyes on both maps atm all the time, I wasn't aware Hair's passing by your fief would cause such a well-suited clan to attack our small surviving band of members.
We're very disorganized at the moment because of the fact that we're scattered, I can't hold every member's hand nor can I reach out and make diplomacy arrangements for every single clan that we may pass by. If I did that, I minaswell quit my day job and focus entirely on Strategus.
I would ask a kindness of you all, however, though it may not come. Since it was an honest mistake on our end and I had not expected clans to still consider us a hostile threat to their S&D or their borders, would you be willing to hold his goods after the attack (since we obviously can't win it) and I have someone come pick them up before too long? That too much to ask or is it also a border policy to keep what you take?