Xynox,
TDM : This term is very subjective; especially you use an archer too and you know that 
- to cover the advance of the ball by a teammate,
- to prevent an enemy from attacking place to receive the ball
- to protect an ally 
- or to destroy defense of the enemy when the ball arrive... , 
we can shoot the other players carrying the ball, which is why I find this rule (TDM) is highly questionable and isn't obvious.
I havent problems with u too except the fact you are in the cowards' side who bans people for no reasons and for finish :
IT'S ONLY A GAME...
sry for my english.