so your saying that the reason you should be unbanned faster is because your rl friends think being banned for breaking the rules is somehow wrong and now wont join the mod...
that's not to say i don't think you should be permabanned im sure a week or so would make you learn your lesson 
but the devs do sometimes browse the forums and whining and talking about how unfair the bans are will not help your cause 
Osiris, what i'm saying is that, in my case, my real life friend who bought the game friday and played Friday/Sat/Sun, was in our TS when the whole banhammer was dropped. I told her why I (ME MYSELF AND I) have been banned and she thought that was ludicrous. In my case, as you know, I had a baby who arrived early and unexpectedly, as babies tend to do, so i texted Rhalzo and said something along the lines of "bro, you see those pics on facebook? yeah new baby is here, can you make sure i finish that trade run and get me back to my village while i'm in the hospital? ok thanks dude, XOXO".
And secondly, if you look back to when before Fallen_Dach started posting in our thread you'll see it was filled with hope and had a general lightheartedness to the posts.
Tears, don't hide your intentions in spoilers and everyone please stop posting. I feel like you're just trolling now so knock it off.
