Apparently you must not read your own posts, then.
Misquoting or partially-quoting someone as a basis for a claim is hardly a shining example of intellectal ability. I stated that "the argument doesn't apply to skilled players simply because they are skilled, although they may fall into this category for other reasons" i.e, being skilled does not place a person into this category, but a skilled player may fall into this category due to other behavior. And considering that that entire first half of the paragraph (which you must have read, since you mentioned "norms") gave the actual definition of the group that I was discussing, i.e, "people who pursue their own interests at the expense of the group and\or in violation of that group's norms," to cut a snippet from the end of the paragraph and then dub the entire line of reasoning a loop is a pitiful excuse for a logical argument.
I'm using the word "norm" in an anthropological sense, i.e, behavior that is considered socially acceptable within a group, whether or not it is commonplace. It is a correct usage of the term to state that being skilled does not violate the norms of the community because there is no social stigma or censure attached to being good at the game.
My main point is simply a recognition of reality - on a gaming server, yes, the owner is essentially god. Is it fair for the owner to ban someone for having a 20-0? Of course not. Does the owner have the right (in terms of ability, not in terms of morality) to do that? Absolutely. It isn't a question of what
should happen, it's a question of what
will happen.
The owner and his associates are going to decide what is permitted on a given server, and the limits that they set may be reasonable, or they may not. It is up to the players to decide if they want to abide by those limitations. If we don't like it, we play somewhere else, and if the owner wants to lay out good money for the privilege of being a douche, good for him. Hope he enjoys his empty server. If we don't have a problem with the owner's rules, then we play there. "Voting with your feet," as they say.
Argumentum ad potentiam really doesn't apply here, since this isn't a question of veracity. If I was saying that the server owner says it is fair to ban you, and the server owner is god on his server, therefore it is fair to ban you, then you would be correct in referencing
argumentum ad potentiam. However, my argument is simply that the server owner doesn't need a specific rule to cite in order to ban someone, if he decides that you are going to be banned because you violate his idea of how he wants things to work on his server (or for any other reason), then you are going to be banned because he has the ability. The ability of the server owner to ban and the fairness/unfairness of that ban are two seperate issues.
And after reading your next to last paragraph, I began to contemplate my life. And in this contemplation, when I realized that I have, in my relatively short life, been on the receiving end of a SWAT operation, been a major contributing factor in a rather dramatic church-split, received an annoying number of credible death threats, been investigated by nine different law enforcement agencies (that I know of) and generally been in trouble with one authority or another my entire life, clearly, I always do exactly what I'm told to do. Thank you, Balton, for enlightening me! I never knew I was such a conformist!
Argumentum ad hominem? Really? Basic logic, indeed...