So... this appears to be a battle between capitalist ideals and socialist ideals
Capitalism = evil and creates whiners that are never happy when they lose the 'good life' they are accustomed to.
I played siege for most of my day off yesterday and I'm happy to say I was in the top 3 on most maps we played and never really paid much attention to multipliers because I was having too much fun smashing face. I wear 37k worth of gear including my weps of course and I still walked out with +1.5 million XP and 10k gold. I was on the winning and the losing team multiple times. How can topping the scoreboards on a constant basis as you claim, not be a huge reward in itself? Who cares if lvl 5 joe peasant is getting more xp/gold then you... he's lvl 5, probally new to the game and NEEDS that xp/gold way more then you do. Focusing on the negative leads to a pessimistic outlook on things.
My question is; what was your score/multiplier on the maps you played before/after this whole 'x1 dilemma' kicked into over-drive.
I've found the easiest way to get people to go where you need them is all caps teamchat. Simply put "PUSH FLAG NOW" "DEFEND FLAG NOW" etc... etc...
Just because you've played this game longer then most and feel you're more skilled then most, doesn't mean you're entitled to a constant multiplier. It means you should be part of a clan by now working on the common goal; winning.