My usual ping on the crpg servers is ~80 and less. I rarely experience any lags or problems of that sort.
In strategus battles my ping goes up drastically (about 20-30points), this probably happens to all players , but when your ping goes from 40 to 60 it's fine, in my case however it's barely playable - half of the swings don't register and everything is in slow-mo. I think i'm speaking on behalf of 99 % of players from eastern europe - please try to do something about it.
If the problem is in crpg 3 + official servers being too busy during strategus battles, we can gladly offer shogunate servers which have the same hardware as the official servers.