We were discussing this in IRC and my guess (besides some of the people who have played since the early days) were referred to this game by a friend. I don't think the taleworlds website is getting a lot of people to actually play the game (it says 165,000+ people have been redirected to the crpg main website, but I don't know if that's enough to get people interested in downloading and playing....maybe it is).
My story:
My bro (tommyhu) and I were both in the Warband MP beta. Both really enjoyed the game, we both played quite a few SP mods (not many MP mods as are as I know...at least I didn't). I got over the Warband MP scene pretty quick (stuck with it maybe 6 months tops after Warband went retail). But still played SP mods quite a bit.
Tommy got into crpg pretty early on (probably in the summer of 2010, not really sure) and kept bugging me to try. But I was reluctant to start playing a persistent game where everyone had months and months of building their characters before me. He kept badgering me and months later I finally decided to play (not til January or Feb of 2011).
My first gen was pretty brutal, went like 220 deaths before finally getting a kill (which was fine with me, I understood I was grinding gold at the beginning). I was riding my courser by the time I retired with all my gear paid for. Even with the help from my bro and other people, I still messed my first build up, and had some obstacles to overcome. I can't imagine what new players go through that have no friends and don't look for a faction or people to help them out
Macropus (http://forum.melee.org/index.php?action=profile;u=18923) brought me here one year and one month ago. So if you hate me for some unknown reasons - then blame him!
And blame Fips also (he really deserves it :-P).