No, it's true... You are very rude to come talking like that here. Now I have been 1 week on forced vacation from work cause there's not enough work... And I have been sitting whole that time inside, working out like 1h per day and spent rest just playing, even though I hate every second I waste with these stupid computer games... And I have cried everyday.
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Post by: Dooz on November 09, 2012, 11:45:40 pm
We should all be crying every day for wasting our lives with this game.
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Post by: Smoothrich on November 09, 2012, 11:47:49 pm
No people you get along with at the workplace? Workers love a good weekend, let them take you somewhere!
I barely even speak at work... I'm 19 years old, 2nd youngest I believe is 37. I think it would feel really weird if I asked them to hang out at weekend.. They all got families and shit, and probably spent whole weekend with their kids & wifes...
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Post by: Christo on November 09, 2012, 11:57:42 pm
I barely even speak at work... I'm 19 years old, 2nd youngest I believe is 37. I think it would feel really weird if I asked them to hang out at weekend.. They all got families and shit, and probably spent whole weekend with their kids & wifes...
No former classmates, family members, I don't know, anyone you can be with?
Family is always the last bastion in this case.
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Post by: GOBBLINKINGREATLEADER on November 10, 2012, 12:02:01 am
No former classmates, family members, I don't know, anyone you can be with?
Family is always the last bastion in this case.
My mom... Doesn't really help that much. I eat lunch with her sometimes at weekends and that's it... No sisters / brothers, last time I heard of my dad I was 11... I had some friends before my dad left, but when he left me & my mom moved all the way from northern Finland to southern Finland, and I have only had one friend after that.. And he has been gone for a while now too...
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Post by: Christo on November 10, 2012, 12:05:26 am
Damn bro, that's sad.
If not for the distance problem, I'd go to a pub with you and drink!
Someone invent teleportation already :)
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Post by: GOBBLINKINGREATLEADER on November 10, 2012, 12:08:06 am
Where do you work? I also work in a place where the only people I can talk with are at least 2.5 times my age.
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Post by: Aku_Ankka on November 10, 2012, 12:10:40 am
Where do you work? I also work in a place where the only people I can talk with are at least 2.5 times my age.
Construction sites mostly, sometimes going for home visits... I'm electrician.
I'm 19 and I've been at bar only once... When I turned 18 I was still living at home so I told my mom I was going to celebrate with my friends... I went alone to bar, drank one beer and spent like 4 hours just wandering around the city so that my mom would think I was having fun with my friends.. When I knew she was sleeping already for sure I sneaked to home... She doesn't even know how big loser I am. She thinks I have friends and I'm doing well and shit.. I have no balls to tell her how it really is.
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Post by: Tibe on November 10, 2012, 12:18:12 am
Grow some motherfucking balls. I got no brothers or sisters either. Ive never really seen my real father and its not like even give a shit. 1 of my friends also commited suicide, other one survived a serius carcrash and other one had braincancer and my parents live in a different country and I dont talk much with the rest of my family. You dont see me crying about it. This is all very much so true. Its all about maning up bro and taking hits. The worst of it could always be infront of your doorstep and what would you do than.
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Post by: Arrowblood on November 10, 2012, 12:26:08 am
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Post by: Tibe on November 10, 2012, 12:34:03 am
Wait...why did I write this? This guy is a bigass kidtroll. Dont take his words seriusly. 80% sure its bullcrap attentionwhoring.
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Post by: Miwiw on November 10, 2012, 12:35:42 am
Making friends is easy. Go into a pup, done.
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Post by: Aku_Ankka on November 10, 2012, 12:40:42 am
I'm not really religious at all.. I left church as soon as I turned to 18. Really, music & work are the only things that make me feel better... That's why this 1 week vacation has been so painful, at work I'm "happy", I'm really respected as a worker cause I always work hardest.. Usually it's me who has done most at the end of the day, cause when I'm working I'm not feeling the pain... The worse thing is that I have no idea when I'll go back to work. It might take few more days, or few more weeks.. Who knows.
I always think "one more day", then it's over... It kinda helps...
Wait...why did I write this? This guy is a bigass kidtroll. Dont take his words seriusly. 80% sure its bullcrap attentionwhoring.
You really shouldn't be talking about things you have no idea. If you really think I would make up something like this... I have no words for you, just... :(
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Post by: Tibe on November 10, 2012, 12:47:32 am
Like I said in the last post I have the perfect idea of what im talking about and im also certain that videogameforum isnt really a substitute for a psychologist. And throwing me to the guilttrip just makes me belive more this is just a troll.
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Post by: Dooz on November 10, 2012, 12:48:43 am
Just join a death metal band like everyone else.
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Post by: wayyyyyne on November 10, 2012, 12:53:09 am
That's sad
regards, sadfrogs
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Post by: Boss_Awesome on November 10, 2012, 12:58:58 am
I guess I am the opposite, going to work upsets me and I wish I could just sit around all day and play video games, but alas owned by my mortgage. I'm guessing this is a troll thread, but perhaps someone will gain some wisdom from it anyway. Just remember, not everyone is worth being friends with, try to find some cool people and then trick them into being friends with you. Also, suicide is a mortal sin so if you do it you will be stuck in Hell forever.
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Post by: Aku_Ankka on November 10, 2012, 01:11:43 am
I guess I am the opposite, going to work upsets me and I wish I could just sit around all day and play video games, but alas owned by my mortgage. I'm guessing this is a troll thread, but perhaps someone will gain some wisdom from it anyway. Just remember, not everyone is worth being friends with, try to find some cool people and then trick them into being friends with you. Also, suicide is a mortal sin so if you do it you will be stuck in Hell forever.
This is not some trolling stuff... I know I shouldn't post here, but I had to tell someone.. No matter if you all laugh at me, I just had to let someone know.. I know it's easy to tell someone to just go get some friends.. But it jsut doesn't work like that.. I have been so long alone, it's hard.. I can't even talk normally with people anymore. When someone tells a joke to me, I don't laugh, not even smile... I don't know why, I wish I could just smile and laugh to all the things that normal my age people do... But I just can't, not anymore... And it's so hard cause I just can't tell anyone face to face about my situation... When I still was at school, and someone asked about my weekend.. I lied to them and told I was drinking, having fun with friends and stuff... In reality I was just sitting at home and hoping for weekend to go past fast. I can't tell the truth to new people I meet. I'm really kinda afraid of social situations, I mean when I go to work I get fine along with everyone as it's just work and I talk about work related stuff.. But if I have to talk about something else, I freak out and just be quiet... Seriously, I don't even have balls to suicide.. If I had I would've done so already.. It's a thing I've been thinking so much, but I just can't do it.. I've even googled for "Ways to suicide", but I just can't find a way that I could do...
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Post by: Torben on November 10, 2012, 01:21:27 am
Hm, pm me if you want to
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Post by: Boss_Awesome on November 10, 2012, 01:30:20 am
This is not some trolling stuff... I know I shouldn't post here, but I had to tell someone.. No matter if you all laugh at me, I just had to let someone know.. I know it's easy to tell someone to just go get some friends.. But it jsut doesn't work like that.. I have been so long alone, it's hard.. I can't even talk normally with people anymore. When someone tells a joke to me, I don't laugh, not even smile... I don't know why, I wish I could just smile and laugh to all the things that normal my age people do... But I just can't, not anymore... And it's so hard cause I just can't tell anyone face to face about my situation... When I still was at school, and someone asked about my weekend.. I lied to them and told I was drinking, having fun with friends and stuff... In reality I was just sitting at home and hoping for weekend to go past fast. I can't tell the truth to new people I meet. I'm really kinda afraid of social situations, I mean when I go to work I get fine along with everyone as it's just work and I talk about work related stuff.. But if I have to talk about something else, I freak out and just be quiet... Seriously, I don't even have balls to suicide.. If I had I would've done so already.. It's a thing I've been thinking so much, but I just can't do it.. I've even googled for "Ways to suicide", but I just can't find a way that I could do...
Alright here is some real advice.
1. Don't tell anyone you meet about your issues. Keep them secret. If you tell them you will scare them off. Most people do not want to get involved with a friendship with someone who is depressed. It might be hard to keep this kind of thing to yourself, but you can't right away. When you have been friends with someone for a few months then you can start talking about the heavy stuff.
2. You need to actually make some friends. Here's how to go about it. You will need to find some hobbies, or you can try a pub. Pubs can be tough though since alcohol may impede your social skills moreso than they already are. Since you are here you obviously like video games, but this scene is mostly online. There are more social types of games, maybe go to a game store and see if you can find a gaming group for maybe a pen and paper RPG, board game, miniature game, card game ect. Make sure it is something you enjoy. If you don't enjoy games like this then find a different hobby. There are groups of people out there for a ton of different things. It will be a lot easier for you to talk to these people because you will share a common interest. The hardcore continguent of various hobbies will talk to ANYONE at length about their one true love (the hobby). It will be easy for you to converse with them since you will have learned a lot about the hobby and will be able to discuss it without feeling out of your element. Some of your fellow hobby aquaintences may end up becoming real friends.
3. Don't suicide because it is fucking stupid. I already posted it is mortal sin but in truth I am an athiest and believe that when a person dies that is it. No angels, no nirvana. END. Ceasing to exist is a hell of a lot worse than whatever you are going through. At least right now you have a chance to change this. Your those that believe in God or whatever they believe it will send you to hell, so either way it is poor option.
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Post by: Bjord on November 10, 2012, 01:33:12 am
The last thing you should consider is suicide, that's the dumbest thing you can do.
If you're not trolling, which for the record I still think you are since every time I see you in the servers you spam nonsense like "I'm gay." and "I like big black cocks in between my lips.", you need to take a few steps back and imagine a future that you think you'd like.
Dreams and ambitions are what drive me, at least. Without them, you're just a walking husk of a human.
Now stop spamming nonsense in the servers and try to make friends with people, virtual or otherwise. :wink:
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Post by: cmp on November 10, 2012, 01:33:21 am
My mother lied to me...she told me that my step father (whom she met when I was 6 years old) was my biological father. They made up some elaborate story of how she had me at the age of 24 years and he was only 18 years old and because his parents didn't approve they split-up but had met up again now and were going to be together...like a proper family. My step father legally adopted me when I was 8 years old and he and my mother are still together. I only found out the truth when I was 15 years old and during an argument my step dad threw the adoption papers at me saying he was glad I wasn't his real son. My relationship with my mother has never been close... she openly tells me that she doesn't love me and would of had an abortion if she'd found out she was pregnant sooner (she didn't find out until she was nearly 8 months pregnant). She also put me up for adoption the day I was born but my n an talked her into keeping me. But the worst happened when I got in one little fight and my mom got scared and said "You're moving with your auntie and uncle in Bel Air". I whistled for a cab and when it came near the license plate said fresh and it had dice in the mirror. If anything I can say is that this cab was rare but I thought "Nah, forget it. Yo home to Bel-Air!". I pulled up to the house about seven or eight and I yelled to the cabbie "Yo homes smell ya later". I looked at my kingdom, I was finally there. To sit on my throne as the Prince of Bel Air.
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Post by: Christo on November 10, 2012, 01:34:14 am
1. Don't tell anyone you meet about your issues. Keep them secret. If you tell them you will scare them off. Most people do not want to get involved with a friendship with someone who is depressed. It might be hard to keep this kind of thing to yourself, but you can't right away. When you have been friends with someone for a few months then you can start talking about the heavy stuff.
Couldn't agree more. +1
I only tell about my deepest problems to people I know for years. Other than what people obviously know via gossip, of course. People might "bail" away from you, or use the information against you, as well.
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Post by: Bjord on November 10, 2012, 01:51:10 am
I only found out the truth when I was 15 years old and during an argument my step dad threw the adoption papers at me saying he was glad I wasn't his real daughter.
You troll, you. I saw that edit.
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Post by: Laufknoten on November 10, 2012, 01:54:22 am
My mother lied to me...she told me that my step father (whom she met when I was 6 years old) was my biological father. They made up some elaborate story of how she had me at the age of 24 years and he was only 18 years old and because his parents didn't approve they split-up but had met up again now and were going to be together...like a proper family. My step father legally adopted me when I was 8 years old and he and my mother are still together. I only found out the truth when I was 15 years old and during an argument my step dad threw the adoption papers at me saying he was glad I wasn't his real son. My relationship with my mother has never been close... she openly tells me that she doesn't love me and would of had an abortion if she'd found out she was pregnant sooner (she didn't find out until she was nearly 8 months pregnant). She also put me up for adoption the day I was born but my n an talked her into keeping me. But the worst happened when I got in one little fight and my mom got scared and said "You're moving with your auntie and uncle in Bel Air". I whistled for a cab and when it came near the license plate said fresh and it had dice in the mirror. If anything I can say is that this cab was rare but I thought "Nah, forget it. Yo home to Bel-Air!". I pulled up to the house about seven or eight and I yelled to the cabbie "Yo homes smell ya later". I looked at my kingdom, I was finally there. To sit on my throne as the Prince of Bel Air.
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Post by: Knute on November 10, 2012, 02:04:03 am
Your situation doesn't sound that different from a lot of people I've known, especially around that age. Sometimes when you've lived in the same place for a long time, it's easy to feel stuck in the rut. Here's what I'd suggest: either change your scenery or if you can't do that, try to make the place where you are the type of place you want to be.
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Have you ever thought about getting some work that would involve travel? Even just temporary volunteer stuff for a few months can really open your eyes plus you'd get to meet new people. You've got some real technical skills too which would be very useful to a lot of organizations which normally might get volunteers straight out of college with a degree but few practical technical skills. You've got your whole life ahead of you to work so why not take some chances and make a few mistakes now. Trust me, it's easier to do it at 19 than later when you have more responsibilities! If you can buy the plane ticket there's lots of places you can live for free while having an adventure too.
On the same note, how about weekend volunteering in the city where you live? That might be a good way to meet some new people. A lot of cities have animal shelters and dog rescues that are run by volunteers. Basically anything social and away from the computer would work though.
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Post by: Christo on November 10, 2012, 02:11:31 am
He got banned?
What just happened..
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Post by: cmp on November 10, 2012, 02:15:26 am
He's Cumface/Herra Hakkarainen/Loukkaavaanimi. Same old troll.
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Post by: Christo on November 10, 2012, 02:17:18 am
Siigh..
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Post by: Bjord on November 10, 2012, 02:22:14 am
As for suicide, you should wait to be happy before doing it. Humans work in cycles and are happy when they are less sad then what they were whatever unit of time before. You can screw up the "over your whole life you'll get average happiness" thing by suiciding when you are super happy. I personally wouldn't blame anybody committing suicide. There's no point living, and there's no point dying either. Your life is a big playground. Feel free to quit when you got enough of it.
Yes I know it's a troll thread that's why I mix up trolling and not trolling just to troll you more.
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Post by: Tibe on November 10, 2012, 08:40:17 am
He shouldnt have any friends :D
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Post by: Tigero on November 10, 2012, 10:40:32 am
Your chances are
1. /hikky 2. Stop M&B and find new friends
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Post by: Putin_Akbar on June 21, 2015, 10:08:04 pm
Same, I have no friends also :(
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Post by: Leshma on June 22, 2015, 12:27:53 am
Friends are for pussies.
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Post by: pogosan on June 22, 2015, 07:51:18 am
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Post by: Doom_Carrot on June 24, 2015, 09:37:21 pm
I have no friends either, ecxept my little stuffed frog who follows me everywhere and talks to me.
He always whispers "help" at night and whenever someone comes to the door I hear him whispering "end them end them end them"
In the morning I always find him in the living room with the string that holds the valentines heart to his hand tied around his neck.