Yes, well, I'm pretty sure she's not actually written to be an annoying emo little girl. The behind the scenes youtube shit from last season was telling, the creators and Sansa's actress thought she was doing the right things and being reasonable in not telling Jon about the army, and Sansa's actress even says "sansa knows ramsay but they won't listen to her" even though Jon literally asks her what she would do and she just sulks.......