F aggot doesn't mean gay. F aggot is an insult. Your suggestion is like "hey lets don't say son of a bitch because it may offend sons of bitches." It'll only offend f aggots, not gays. F aggots should be offended anyway because they are f aggots.
Gay and f aggot are complete 2 different things.
Trying to use "gay" as an insult on the other hand is retarded, shows your age (around 14s) and IQ to community. It's just a matter of choice and not liking it doesn't mean you shant respect it.
I know some gay men who are more manly than me. Brave,courageos,idealist,revolutionist and no fear to express their thoughts. Those deeds make people man, not whom they choose to fuck. Being a pussy,a runaway retard with shit infested thoughts make you a f aggot not your sexual preference.