Honestly man, if you don't like the game you don't like it, in your mind you think that the blue tint mess that is BF3 looks better and in mind I think ARMA 3 is much better. I thought the graphics in FC3 were very average, same with Dragon Rising. Crysis is an exception, but you're drawing opinions on a game based entirely on the graphics so I probably should have just drawn the line from the start.
Your judgement is strewn about because you're basing your entire opinion of a game solely on the looks, rather than the gameplay.