You've not got much to worry about, I don't play games to be a douchebag. Oh wait, I'm a Horse Archer in cRPG, I have no valid argument.
But yeah, I am well behaved and I would like to think at least reasonably mature, at least being 27 years of age I hope I am , but I've been in the Fallen Brigade since it was about 2 weeks old and I've never been in the bad books so to speak. You've got nothing to worry about.
I know! I wasn't being serious, they'd have my head anyway!
no body answered my question of what the difference between this and haven/salem is
Erm... Hard to explain since they're similarly skill focused but there is certainly a lot of differences. I mean, besides the 3D aspect, you've got far more skills, you level up those skills by doing things, not waiting for curious to tick by.
I think those are the major differences to start off with, I mean you've got your usual terraforming (much more towards what Salem tried to do) but you also have things like world events that happen, much better on Epic, as long as a meteor or a God doesn't take a particular disliking towards you and your deed...
Although I must admit it is hilarious to be following someone as a mission is completed and have the God suddenly decided "fuck you in particular" and spawn five giant... "things" on top of your friend. That yelp of both surprise and fear I shall never forget, talking about what we should do when we get back to the settlement, sudden lightning strike & a flash of light, yelp of friend as he disappears from view behind the giant mobs.
Or the champion eagle spirit that I ran through a settlement by mistake that then proceeded to kill off all the inhabitants simply because they couldn't keep up with my horse... I ran straight to Vinnie typing frantically about a giant ghost eagle eating "The Germans". We ran between guard towers as this thing ate it's way around our island. The damned thing had this awful ability to wing buffet and launch players from their horses. Christ, where people ended up while fighting was ridiculous.
Anyway...