i believe this is just the charm of crpg. it gives you a feeling to play an 'elite' game.
Well, elite GTX was crushed when he was trying to find out whats native duelling all about.
On topic, I would suggest you to use skip the fun and respec a lot.
Do not sign up as a main char, just leave it the way it is. This way you may reassign all the points as often as you want.
Also, keep in mind, the 'goal' of a video game is to have fun; not to be the hero of a community who's members are mostly immature brats or plain stupid. Or simply no lifer assholes.
It doesnt matter how many kills you get or what not.
From my experience, with a skip the fun level 30 char and crap gear it is possible to reach a decent k-d (k>d) but as said above it simply doesnt matter how good you are doing. Let them run around in superior gear and use exploits. Focus on yourself and enjoy the game. So arcade it is, its still fun.
my old friendguts who wanna make the game designed for kids.
Dude, it IS a game designed for kids. Unlike the kid is extremely stupid, it is not necessary to be older than 14 years to understand and master it.
From my experience, when you reach some age in real life, your eyes get worse, your hands get slower, and most of all, you simply dont have the time to sit in front of your computer and push buttons all day.