Positive attitude helps allot, it ain't easy though. Today our PA had 0-6, I asked him wtf man, his answer was sry, having a bad day... now initial reaction is feeder, noob, dc, l2dota, but instead I wrote, it's ok man, just farm up we got this, though he didn't turn the game by himself, he instead got some decent items, few kills and split pushed really well helping us win the game. Now this is a rare case of honesty but since I started using this non flaming mehtod and "we can do this" approach instead of toxicity my games have become waaaay more enjoyable. Ofc there are games when you play with autists and just afk because it's over by min 20