Relatively new player here - never played pre-patch, discovered Warband early this year and c-rpg shortly after, since the native multiplayer missed rpg elements. Have been playing a lot since (I have the freedom to dedicate a few weeks to playing an incredibly important computer game... ;-) ) - and enjoy it.
I suck and have low "skill" (i.e. slow pc, framerate often under 20, crappy internet with 250 ping on average), but Hirlok is having fun, a lot, and sometimes even doing resonably well.
An elitist 300 "pro"-gamer community ("This is SPARTA - n00bs get the fuck out... ") would only have triggered my middle finger reflex and I would have quit after a few hours.
However I do understand and share 2 aspects of the OP:
- community. There are a few people you see everyday, and some of them are great teamplayers, have style, are funny, relaxed and friendly. Some are assholes - in a stylish and obviously role-playing way, which is funny as well. And there are a lot of real, stupid, primitive idiots around - which at some times can be annoying, on those days where the whole siege server is only one griefing, teamkilling, teamwounding, headless-chicken-running-around mess - I just get out. Just natural: a bigger player base mirrors the real world. Nuff said. Sometimes you wish for a smaller, more mature mankind, sometimes you wish for a smaller, more close c-rpg community - both probably won't happen...
- more rpg elements. We will see how much of that Strategus will bring or not - but personally I share the wish of the OP to have more possibilities to make your char unique and keep it developing, maybe including "non-aggressive" skills like charisma and intelligence or even the classic rpg skills like being woodwise etc.. But frankly I have the feeling that we do not wish for a slightly changed mod, but for a game that so far does not exist... a cross-breed of Drakensang and M&B, which I would very much like to see and will patiently await over the next decades... lol
Executive summary: yeah, there are a few things that could be improved (very much agree with a max number of heirloomes - e.g. 3 masterworks max), and the ole times are always better in some way, but overall I think c-rpg is one of the best things in the gaming world and on the right path. Keep going, folks!