If people are talking about respecing cause of this well theres too many cav players anyways. Also becareful you lancer cav guys, if lancer cav is too hard for you you might be surprised how much harder every other build in the game is. If your that bothered just use a shorter lance, so waht some more people with very logn weapons can hit you, 1h cav deals with it on a much more severe level with no problem.
Also as someone who is shot at by archer cav maybe every other round, they do no damage really, i sometimes dont even try to avoid the arrows. But tis fair given how hard they are to kill.