Well, to be honest I think it's ok as it is now. I still top the scoreboard so lancing is far from useless.
It just gets some time to get used to. Good nerf? Yeah, probably.
But people will still complain abour lancers being OP, that is for sure.
Hell yes, but people will still complain that an archer can hit them from afar, and not get a protective piece of wood, and people will still want to have duels in the middle of a bloody battle, and expect that without taking any care no cav will poke them, and that they are the very best and can slaughter everyone because they all are heroes, like in SP...
I do not think any updates will change that mentality.
And btw, I will retry heavy lance cav in a few days, when I have time to bring my cav alt back to a decent level