Maybe this isn't the best place for you to be posting then, since its the devs of Strategus investigating your clan possibly exploiting a game mechanic that is severely looked down upon.
Transferring fiefs is severely looked down upon? I can see if we were attacking our own fief and said we were transferring to another member of the faction, but we've been planning on giving up Tazjunut and Unriya to Astralis, and we were eventually going to be taking over Tulga from them.
Also if the dev's theory is that we're delaying the inevitable attack by the 2200 man shogunate army, and/or Braeden's army, wouldn't we be sending troops to reinforce the village, otherwise what tactical advantage would there be to defending the siege 24 hours later? Wouldn't sending reinforcements be the only reason to delay an enemies attack on a village?
And you can't just cancel the attack at this point, it would be nice if as the attacker you could just turn your army around and retreat, but with the current system you can't. If you retreat, you surrender all your men to the executioner (even as an attacker).